Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative Meeting in May

Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative Meeting in May

Our guest speaker in May is San Diego Deputy District Attorney Carolyn Matzger from the DA’s sex crimes and human trafficking division. We will also invite the recipient of this year’s special Soroptimist Live Your Dream Education & Training award for a victim of sex trafficking. This award was made possible by all who donated and/or participated in last year’s “30 Miles in 30 Days” to Fight Trafficking Walkathon. Please join us! All are invited and complimentary water, coffee and pastries will be available.

2023 Live Your Dream Awards

2023 Live Your Dream Awards

by Jackie Piro Huyck, SI Vista NCI

VISTA, California, March 22, 2023—Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland (SI Vista NCI) announces with immense pride this year’s winners of the Live Your Dream Education and Training Awards. The club distributed awards totaling $18,100 to six women during the club’s Awards Brunch held March 18 at Palomar Estates East clubhouse in San Marcos. In the 50 years since the award’s inception in 1973, the Vista-based club has distributed nearly $175,000 in cash awards for women’s education to women locally, most of whom have overcome enormous obstacles including domestic violence, teen pregnancy, substance abuse and sex trafficking. Recipients may use the cash award to offset any costs associated with their efforts to attain higher education, such as books, childcare, tuition and transportation.

Club president Jennifer Luz-Olson recognized local dignitaries present at the event including Vista Mayor John Franklin, Vista Councilmember Katie Melendez and San Diego Deputy District Attorney Carolyn Matzger from the San Diego DA’s sex crimes and human trafficking division. Each awardee received a Letter of Appreciation from the City of Vista.

“In addition to celebrating these six amazing women, we are also celebrating our club’s 70th year of service in the community, because our club was chartered in March 1953,” said longtime member Thoralinda Soyland, pointing to a display of decades’ worth of history-laden photo albums and news clippings on display at the event. Soyland has been a Soroptimist for 44 years and grew up in Vista.

Each of the awardees was invited to speak about their struggles and dreams for a better life.

Recipient of the first place Live Your Dream Award was Kathryn Seman of Valley Center. Her dream is to attend USC to obtain a degree in Urban Planning and Development. A single mom of three who has experienced domestic violence, she said “Considering I only completed one year of high school and obtained a GED at 16, I never thought I would ever go back to school, and here I am at 32, proof that it’s never too late to reinvent yourself… this award means everything to me and my children.” Currently Kathryn is holding down two jobs to support her family while attending Palomar College.

Amanda Rodriguez received a special award reserved by the club for a survivor of human trafficking. Single mother to a 10-year-old, Amanda is pursuing a BA at Pt. Loma Nazarene in International Development with a minor in Marketing. “During the pandemic I co-founded a nonprofit tech startup, Free Brands, with a mission to empower survivors of human trafficking to become thriving entrepreneurs,” she said. Her dream is to live in a world where survivors are no longer just surviving, but “thriving by pursuing their purpose, and by extension raising children free from bondage, who are empowered to dream audaciously, knowing they are supported,” she wrote.

Jane Ogwuegbu is single mom of a 1-year-old son. Jane currently holds an Associate’s Degree in Nursing with a dream of becoming a Nurse Anesthetist. “As a victim of domestic violence, living in a shelter since last year, it’s even more challenging to meet our basic needs…and realistically impossible for me to fund my career…” she wrote. Despite these challenges and lack of family support, Jane believes her current situation is temporary and she is determined to remain positive and achieve her career goal.

Aline Ramirez is a single mom going through a difficult divorce. The sole support of her 3-year-old daughter, she works at a domestic violence shelter while attending Cal State San Marcos. Aline’s passion is to help women and their families in the community. She is working towards a BA in Sociology and her dream is to earn a Master’s Degree in Social Work and work as a case manager for victims of domestic violence. “Winning this award will help me continue school and not stress each semester about paying for my classes,” she said.

Maria Solano (not her real name) asked that her name and photo be withheld for safety reasons. Single mom of 3 children, she is a student at MiraCosta College and is holding down a part-time job while studying social work and human services. Her goals are to complete her AA and ultimately earn a Bachelor’s degree. Her dream is to find a field of work that would match her desire to help families and children, especially those with disabilities. Her award will help her stay the course.

Monica Limon’s award will help her achieve her dream of becoming a Preschool Director and helping children and parents, especially at-risk children and children with disabilities. Monica is a survivor of domestic violence and is taking care of her mother, husband and child while working full time as program manager for a daycare center. She is attending Palomar College and wants to obtain a BA in Early Childhood Education.

Attendees of the awards ceremony enjoyed a delicious brunch catered by the Broken Yolk in San Marcos. The club thanked Program Sponsors Allison Temples, David Asbury, Diane and Steve Scheerhorn, Harcourt Hervey, Karen Kahrhoff, Lynn Flanagan, Marianne Grisez, Nancy DePaola-Brooks, Paula Nix and Runa Gunnars, and Brunch Sponsors Assly Sayyar, the Scheerhorns, Jody Haddon, Judy Gregorie, Paige McWey Acers and Sherry Luz.

SI Vista NCI fundraises throughout the year to support the awards program and other projects that lead to women’s economic empowerment. “It is thanks to our generous donors and those attending our fundraisers that we are able to give out these awards each year,” said Live Your Dream chair Sherry Luz.

“The special award for a survivor of sex trafficking was thanks to funds we raised from our annual ‘30 Miles in 30 Days’ Walkathon,” added Kaye Van Nevel, who spearheads the club’s human trafficking awareness efforts.

Upcoming fundraisers include a “Favorite Things with a Twist” event at the Vista Senior Center on April 8, a “Lunch and Bunco” fundraiser at Rhythm Church in Oceanside on April 15, and an “English Garden Tea” in San Marcos on May 20. To learn more about the club and its events, visit soroptimistvista.org.

The Vista-based club is part of Soroptimist International, a worldwide organization. The Soroptimist Live Your Dream Award program provides over $2.8 million in cash grants to head-of-household women in need each year. Since the program’s inception 50 years ago, more than $35 million has helped tens of thousands of women achieve their dreams of a better life for themselves and their families—leading to stronger communities, nations, and the world.

For more information visit soroptimistvista.org or email soroptimistinternationalvista@gmail.com.

 

Above L-R: First place awardee Kathryn Seman, Soroptimist Sherry Luz, and Vista Councilmember Katie Melendez at Awards Brunch in San Marcos.
Above L-R: Vista Mayor John Franklin, Second place awardee Amanda Rodriguez, Vista Councilmember Katie Melendez, and Soroptimist Sherry Luz.

THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS!

Program Sponsors

Allison Temples
David Asbury
Diane and Steve Scheerhorn
Harcourt Hervey
Karen Kahrhoff
Lynn Flanagan
Marianne Grisez
Nancy DePaola-Brooks
Paula Nix
Runa Gunnars

Brunch Sponsors

Assly Sayyar,
Diane and Steve Scheerhorn
Jody Haddon
Judy Gregorie
Paige McWey Acers
Sherry Luz

Two Events in January

Two Events in January

Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland held TWO events in January, which was Human Trafficking Awareness Month.

The first event kicked off on January 1st: the club’s 3rd Annual “30 Miles in 30 Days to Fight Human Trafficking” Virtual Walkathon fundraiser. Proceeds support the club’s efforts to help women and children who have been victims of human trafficking. The walkathon began Jan. 1 and ran through Jan. 30 and raised over $2,000.

The second event was the club’s 17th annual Human Trafficking Awareness Walk and Event held in person from 10 a.m. to noon on Saturday, January 28 at the United Methodist Church of Vista, 490 S. Melrose Drive, Vista. Guest speaker Susan Johnson, of Alabaster Jar Project, spoke at around 10:30 a.m., and the walk started at 11 a.m. from the church, down Melrose Drive about 1.5 miles to Sunset Drive and back. There were information tables, water and “Stop Trafficking” signs for all. We will be posting story and photos from the Walk in the weeks to come.

Soroptimists Donate Blankets to One Safe Place

Soroptimists Donate Blankets to One Safe Place

 “I loved the sensitivity they provided the trauma victims of every age. Every aspect of their services were designed to respect the needs and feelings of their clients: privacy, confidentiality, compassion and humanity.”  Dyana Preti, Soroptimist Member

by Lani Beltrano

On November 1st, Dyana, Pat O, Sherry and I met with Claudia Grasso, the Executive Director of One Safe Place in San Marcos to donate over 70 blankets collected from club members and supporters (with SI Vista NCI labels attached) and to get a private tour of the facility.

One Safe Place helps people of all ages who have suffered domestic violence, sexual assault, child abuse, elder abuse, and human trafficking. Since its July opening, the facility has seen over 1,000 victims. Many services are offered at this location at no cost, including legal services, crisis response, foster care, health and wellness, pet assistance, restraining order assistance, food, housing and employment help. As of October 30, the facility had 84 committed partners available to give clients help and help them begin their healing process. It is associated with Palomar Health, so victims may also be seen at that facility if necessary.

During the tour we were able to see the kid’s playroom, medical examination room with showers, computer room, various conference rooms, professional kitchen, district attorneys’ rooms, prayer room, tele-court room and Sharia’s Closet. Sharia’s Closet is a non-profit that accepts gently-used clothing for the victims and their families. The members were very pleased and grateful to have this wonderful opportunity. It is indeed One Safe Place! Below are Dyana’s, Pat’s and Sherry’s thoughts about One Safe Place.

Dyana Preti: “I loved the sensitivity they provided the trauma victims of every age. Every aspect of their services were designed to respect the needs and feelings of their clients: privacy, confidentiality, compassion and humanity.”

Pat O: “My take is that they would benefit from hands-on volunteers, as their collaborations with other agencies garners lots of donations of what is needed. The donation of blankets is ours as Soroptimists, fulfilling a need that their collaborators did not already address. Loved our tour!”

Sherry Luz: “The facility was beautiful and you could tell that it will be well used. Space for every agency, kids, moms, nurses, clothing. You name it and it was covered. Such a fine place! Very thoughtful place. Congratulations to our county!”

 

Photo top (l-r): Soroptimists Sherry Luz, Lani Beltrano, Dyana Preti and Pat Origlieri pose with donated blankets and One Safe Place Executive Director Claudia Grasso. Our club is still collecting blankets, and will be making a second trip. Our goal is to donate as many blankets as possible by the end of 2022 (and possibly beyond. If interested in contributing, leave us a voice mail at 760-683-9427 or email us at soroptimistinternationalvista@gmail.com and we’ll get back to you.

Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative Meeting

Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative Meeting

November 10, 2022, Vista, CA—Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland hosted the North County Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative meeting on Thursday, November 3, 9 a.m., at United Methodist Church of Vista’s Fellowship Hall at 490 S. Melrose Ave., Vista. Guest speaker was Don Meredith, Rancho Santa Fe Rotarian, who was inspired by the RSF Rotary’s focus on human trafficking. After listening to multiple speakers at weekly Rotary meetings on the topic he became aware of the severity and extensiveness of human trafficking around the world. He wanted to help, and the idea simply came to him in a dream! The Signal! This SOS Signal, a quick hand gesture for victims to let bystanders subtly know they are in distress and that they “Need to Get Help!”

L-R: Kaysee Morota, Liz Ferguson, Jacque Howard, Terry Haskins, Don Meredith, Kaye Van Nevel and Donna Weber

The next meeting is in January. The event is free to the public, and coffee and pastries will be provided. For more information contact:
Kaye Van Nevel at valentinestella147@gmail.com or visit
http://www.soroptimistvista.org/ending-violence-against-women-and-girls

ABOUT THE COLLABORATIVE: The North San Diego County Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative is a Program of Service of Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland in partnership with United Methodist Church of Vista. The Collaborative is a diverse group of individuals and community organizations committed to eliminate human trafficking and modern day slavery. Our mission is to raise awareness of human trafficking, provide a platform to share information, improve services, educate ourselves and the public, and advocate for policy and legislation related to human trafficking. Our Collaborative Meetings are held bi-monthly on the first Thursday of the month from 9 am to 10:30 am in the Church’s Fellowship Hall (lower level) at 490 S. Melrose Drive, Vista. Admission is free and all are welcome. Complimentary coffee and pastries are be available. 

Foster Children are Subject of September Program Meeting

Foster Children are Subject of September Program Meeting

Our guest speaker for our September Program Meeting was Paul Ammons, CASA Outreach Coordinator for Voices for Children, a San Diego nonprofit that recruits, trains, and supports Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) volunteers who speak up for the needs and well-being of children in foster care in our area. Paul is asking us to help spread the word to find more CASA volunteers to help these kids, whose lives are chaotic and who often need to move frequently, changing school districts, being reassigned social workers, etc. And as we know, foster children are particularly vulnerable to sex trafficking. They are in need of one stable adult in their life who cares about them and will have their back for a sustained period.

Voices for Children recruits and trains and supports CASA volunteers. Each volunteer is vetted and appointed by a judge to get involved in the life of a child, spend time with them, and report to the court about the child’s progress and needs. Unlike the high caseloads social workers and legal advocated face, a CASA is able to focus on just one child or sibling group at a time. By building a trusting relationship with that child, a CASA is able to help the judge understand not only their situation but also what they like to do, what their favorite subject is in school, or why they are struggling in a certain placement. This helps judges make the most informed decisions for children’s futures.

To become a CASA, no legal experience or prior knowledge of foster care are required; Voices for Children provides all the training needed. Volunteers must be at least 21, able to visit with their case child at least once per month, have a good driving record and pass a background check, and commit to a minimum of 18 months, with average service of 10-15 hours per month.

For more information, visit www.speakupnow.org

 

Deputy DA Tafreshi Speaks at Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative Meeting

Deputy DA Tafreshi Speaks at Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative Meeting

September 1, 2022, Vista, CA—Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland hosted the North County Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative meeting on Thursday, September 1, 9 a.m., at United Methodist Church of Vista’s Fellowship Hall at 490 S. Melrose Ave., Vista. Guest speaker was Deputy District Attorney Brooke Tafreshi, Community Partnership Prosecutor assigned to North County San Diego, who spoke about the new Family Justice Center, “One Safe Place” that opened in San Marcos in July. (PHOTO: Brooke Tafreshi with Soroptimist Kaye Van Nevel, who chairs the Collaborative.)

The center is a place where child, adult, and elderly victims of abuse and their families will walk through the doors and receive acute crisis-care, advocacy, counseling, legal services, connection to shelter and housing, long term mentoring, workforce readiness, and educational opportunities – all under one roof. The goal of the North County Family Justice Center is to provide hope, healing, and justice by creating pathways forward for victims and their families as they move through the process of “surviving to thriving.” Before, victims and survivors had to travel to several different locations across North County to receive a full continuum of support which could be exhausting and a barrier to getting healed. While existing service providers provide excellent services, there was little interconnectivity, and providers often operated in silos, rather than under one umbrella of victim care. For more info see https://onesafeplacenorth.org/

ABOUT THE COLLABORATIVE: The North San Diego County Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative is a Program of Service of Soroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland in partnership with United Methodist Church of Vista. The Collaborative is a diverse group of individuals and community organizations committed to eliminate human trafficking and modern day slavery. Our mission is to raise awareness of human trafficking, provide a platform to share information, improve services, educate ourselves and the public, and advocate for policy and legislation related to human trafficking. Our Collaborative Meetings are held bi-monthly on the first Thursday of the month from 9 am to 10:30 am in the Church’s Fellowship Hall (lower level) at 490 S. Melrose Drive, Vista. Admission is free and all are welcome. Complimentary coffee and pastries are be available. 

Soroptimists Donate to Ukraine Relief

Soroptimists Donate to Ukraine Relief

August 6, 2022, Vista, CASoroptimist International of Vista and North County Inland (SI Vista NCI) has donated $1,000 from the club’s general fund to aid Ukrainian refugees in Hungary and Ukraine through Soroptimist International of Europe’s War Zone Initiative projects. The money was wired directly to Soroptimist International of Szombathely (Hungary) which will use it to provide families who have fled the war in Ukraine with basic medical supplies. Many Soroptimist clubs in Hungary, Poland, Romania and Moldova have set up funding mechanisms to provide assistance to the 3.2 million refugees who have fled their Ukrainian homeland. Individuals and clubs who wish to donate to any of the Soroptimist global relief efforts can donate to a specific project of their choosing here:  https://soroptimist-projects.org/explore-projects/

SI Vista NCI is part of Soroptimist International, a worldwide service organization with the mission of working at local, national and international levels to educate, empower and enable opportunities for women and girls. There are more than 72,000 members in 121 countries and 5 federations worldwide. The local club meets twice a month and new members are always welcome. See soroptimistvista.org or call 760-683-9427 for more information.

Spotlight on 2022 Live Your Dream Awardees

Spotlight on 2022 Live Your Dream Awardees

by April Frisby

by April Frisby

Member, SI Vista NCI

Diana

Diana

2022 Live Your Dream Awardee

Amy

Amy

2022 Live Your Dream Awardee

Jasmine

Jasmine

2022 Live Your Dream Awardee

Rebecca

Rebecca

2022 Live Your Dream Awardee

June 8, 2022, Vista, CA–This year, our club raised over $15,000 to award four women, giving them a much-deserved opportunity to improve their lives through further education. With funding and support from our Soroptimist club, the women can utilize the awards for food, rent, bills, travel, tuition, or in any other way that will help them along the path to ultimately achieving their dream jobs and inspiring other women in the process.

This month we would like to celebrate our four Live Your Dream awardees. Each is a positive, strong, brave, independent woman who has worked hard to make impressive progress in her personal and professional life. All are stars and serve as shining examples to us all.

 

Diana Diaz is a single mother to a seven-year-old daughter named Daniella and is studying to achieve her childhood dream of becoming a nurse. After applying to a number of competitive colleges across the state of California, Diana recently uprooted her life in San Marcos to accept an offer to train as a Registered Nurse at Modesto Junior College in Modesto, California. With her parents residing in Mexico, Diana is determinedly and single-handedly supporting herself as a full-time student and primary caregiver to her daughter and is on-track to graduate as an RN in 2023.

 

 

 

Amy DeMar was awarded a Live Your Dream Scholarship as an at-large applicant this year, as there was no local Soroptimist chapter close to where she currently resides in Aztec, New Mexico with her five-year-old son, Samuel. Amy is studying Psychology and her ideal role is to become a civilian military psychologist and practice in the field with service members during their deployments. She hopes to help and inspire those suffering with PTSD, giving them the proper tools to live long and productive lives long after the battles are over.

 

 

 

 

Our next awardee, Jasmine Davis, has been amazingly resilient and persistent, dealing with abusive relationships, overcoming homelessness and recently experiencing the loss of a parent from Covid-19. A loving mother to her three-year-old son, RJ, Jasmine has persevered through tragedy and is now studying for an Associate’s Degree in Information Technology at Miramar College. Her dream role is to work for the Department of Justice, the FBI, or CIA in a cybersecurity-related capacity, serving her country to do what comes naturally to her – helping make the world a safer place and protecting members of the public from harm.

 

 

 

Rebecca Villalobos is a self-employed esthetician and mother of two small children under the age of three. After suffering with low self-esteem in her teen years, Rebecca has used her experience and role as a single mother to aspire to help others. She is studying for an Associate’s Degree in Sociology at Mira Costa College, with a view to attending graduate school at Cal State San Marcos and pursuing a career in the public service sectors

Deputy DA Tafreshi Speaks at Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative Meeting

May 5th HT Collaborative

 

Collaborative Update 

by Kaye Van Nevel

Our May North County Anti-Human Trafficking Collaborative meeting was held 9 am on Thursday, May 5th at the United Methodist Church of Vista, 490 S. Melrose Ave., Vista in Fellowship Hall (lower level). 

Our guest speaker was Kathleen Thomas, North County Lifeline, Project Life. 

Kathleen (Kay) Thomas is the Clinical Training Coordinator for North County Lifeline’s Project LIFE providing trauma-reprocessing, intensive case management, victim advocacy, and psychotherapy to individuals who have experienced exploitation and trafficking in San Diego County. 

Kathleen spoke about the importance of easy access of information to the public.  Project Life’s recently produced comprehensive 11 minute video is just that. It is now available on the North County Lifeline Website and on their Facebook page. 

There is also a webinar available with valuable information on how to get involved in the fight against Human Trafficking (see below). 

We also discussed contacting prospective applicants for Soroptimist’s Live Your Dream Awards who are survivors of human trafficking for 2023 and the much-anticipated opening of One Safe Place in San Marcos, California in June.  

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